HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
4.0
54.8K reviews
5M+
Downloads
Content rating
USK: Ages 18+
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About this app

Join over 13 million+ lesbian, bisexual, trans+, and queer people on HER - the world's most loved dating app & platform for the LGBTQIA+ community. We believe that everyone has the right to love and be loved, find friends, and form meaningful relationships within the LGBTQIA+ community.

💜 OUR STORY: BUILT BY AND FOR THE COMMUNITY
HER started as a lesbian dating app built by and for lesbian & queer women. We evolved into an LGBTQIA+ platform for all colors of the rainbow. We are proud to say that now we are more than the 'swipe right' lesbian dating app. We want to be the best LGBTQ platform, and we are working hard to make it happen.

🎉 WHAT YOU’LL FIND ON HER
❤️ Dating – Experience the best online lesbian dating community & meet queer folks from all over the world.
❤️ LGBTQ+ News Feed – Share the most urgent and fantastic news about the LGBTQ+ community.
❤️ Communities – Join smaller community group chats based on interests or hobbies.

PACKED WITH FEATURES
At its heart, HER is a free dating app for lesbians and LGBTQ+ people. All the app's core features are entirely free, so finding your person or your community is accessible for everyone. With the free app version, you can view profiles, start chats, view events, and join communities.

There's also a paid subscription offering even more great features.
– Ad-free experience
– See who's online in real-time
– Additional search filters
– Incognito mode
– And many more!

FIND LOVE, FRIENDS & COMMUNITY
Download HER to join a community of people who believe in LGBTQ+ equality and empowerment. Whether you're here for a girlfriend or partner, someone for a great date, or your next friendship group, the HER community is a welcoming and supportive one.

HER is a place where you can be authentic, whether you're lesbian, bi, queer, non-binary, trans, or gender non-conforming. It's your safe harbor where everyone can be their true self.

🌟 MORE THAN JUST DATING
Whether you're looking for someone special to date or just hoping to meet new people who understand your journey, our platform is here to help. We’re proud to provide a safe space for the LGBT community, where connections go beyond just romance. You can easily meet like-minded individuals, whether you're attending an online event, joining a discussion group, or simply browsing profiles. In every corner of the app, you'll find features designed to bring LGBT voices to the forefront.

FRIENDSHIPS THAT MATTER
"Making a genuine friend can be just as meaningful as finding a partner. That’s why we make it easy to reach out, chat, and form friendships rooted in shared experiences. The mission is to help you meet people who feel like home—whether it’s a future partner or a lifelong friend. We’re committed to supporting the LGBT community through inclusive tools that encourage real connection, not just swipes.

🏳️‍🌈 EVERYONE’S WELCOME
HER is a safe and inclusive place to date and chat for all queer people. While it started as a lesbian dating app, it has evolved into a platform for LGBTQIA+ people. Cis women, trans women, trans men, non-binary people, and gender non-conforming people are all welcome. Share your story, discover local events, join the community and live your best life!

HER is somewhere that all the other colors of the rainbow can unite.

❤️ Find out more: ❤️
https://weareher.com/
@hersocialapp
Updated on
Oct 28, 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

4.0
54K reviews
robyn merchant
August 18, 2025
I like every aspect about this app- but, as it is, it's essentially unusable. There's the big countdown when you "run out of likes" that tells you to wait for the next day, which I'm fine with ... except it doesn't let you see more the next day! It goes from "1 minute" to "wait another 24 hours"! Hello?? What's the point of the timer if it doesn't actually countdown to when you can use the app again ???
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Nina Grundmann
August 25, 2025
if you pay, this app is really great. I love the little details and everything you can check and all the funny little things you can add to your profile!! BUT the chat drives me INSANE. it doesn't scroll above your keyboard so you can't see what you're typing and sometimes you won't see some of the messages unless you constantly put your screens keyboard away and then get it back up again. it's SO infuriating because a message that would usually take me a few seconds takes a minute instead.
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Anna Supes Ramm
May 27, 2025
Pretty basic dating app interface, though I do like that it's geared exclusively toward sapphic folks. One downside is that the bio text limit is pretty short. Also, some features like communities are not very intuitive... and there doesn't seem to be any content monitoring to make sure people don't spam communities with off-topic posts. The breakout feature WOULD have been the friend request option -- BUT I CAN'T GET IT TO WORK. It doesn't appear for me at all. What do I do???
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HER App
May 27, 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. We totally understand that removing Friend Requests can feel like a big change, especially if it’s been a go-to way for you to connect. Your feedback means a lot to us, and we’ll definitely pass it along to the team as we keep working to make HER the best it can be.

What’s new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!